Thursday, January 21, 2010

I'm back and dealing with commitment issues

Ahh caught your attention, didn't it? No not that kind of commitment issue.

After a brief hiatus, which I thought Husband had joined me on, I was suprised to read a few more postings by him. Alas, I have knocked off Facebook a bit early tonight and decided I should post something, as I have commited to blog-u-menting( like it?) its my new word for blog documenting. Hah! Genius!

Anyway back to commitment. Everyone always asks us, "So what's different now that you are married?" Well, nothing or is it?
So after reading Husbands posts below, I can attest, we had that conversation over dinner. I'll admit it, its not my favorite conversation to have with him, but i feel we must. His job, in media, has little if no job security. Before marrying, I never really worried about losing a job or what we would do if one of us was out of work. However, now that we are "married" this has seemingly become a issue to me. We have bills, car payments, life styles to keep-up and this would be difficult on 1 salary. What would we do? How fast would one of us find a job?

put most of these quetsions to husband as like i said, he is in more danger of losing his job, than I. So, i guess things have changed as when you are married you no longer worry about your own fears or problems, you take on your partners as well as your own.
None the less I wouldn't trade it as I love husband and would support him, if anything ever happened.

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